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its nearing february. where everyone will be leaving for further studies in overseas or something.

so far, one friend left. another one coming up this saturday. and maybe another one next month.

them leaving is something great for themselves. but the fact that they are leaving makes the ones that stays feel sad because life back here will be different without them.

since it for a wayy better cause, us feeling sad is just a small part. them having a bright future is the main thing.

and for some that is leaving abroad and also leaving their girlfriends or boyfriends behind, i am sure it is hard.

cause to me long distance relationships takes ALOT to work. when abit of thing goes wrong, the oath may just break off.

the things that are holding the oath is very very thin only. very vulnerable.

to me, dont matter how strong a relationship was before leaving will not even tell how it may work out after leaving.

i've seen how shaky it turned out to be. to get involve with it in the first place, it is already a big risk.

its not that it never worked before, it did. definitely did. but during that period of time, i can tell you, its hard.

only those who are really really strong could hold on. and i am really amazed with couples like that.

a big part of me tells me if its me, it wont work.

i am that kind of person that has alot of what if questions. like.. what if someone better appeared when i needed you? what if you met someone there?

you know.. all this insecurities. its definitely hard for people that are going through it. even i who dont have to go through it is feeling the pain.

i guess challenges like this will either make a couple fall or will make them alot alot stronger. soo.. i would say try your best!

but if you know from the start that it wont work, dont waste the time of the one you love. maybe its better to let go.

dont be that selfish one. dont hold people back when you are certain that it already wont work. especially those you love.

agree or not to agree?